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So.. Wanna go out sometime?

In the mind of a guy...

If you ever wonder why you can’t get that girl or you just don’t know what to do when you see your love of your life. Some people have answered the call and are willing to tell you the secrets to getting a girl.

The most importance thing is confidence. Actually confidence is the key to getting all things you desire in life. Many say that the first impression means the most; so don’t come off as a jerk. Be sweet and romantic. Also, most people said they approached the girl by just saying hi, though one person I talked to approached a girl by asking for a pencil.

A long lasting relationship isn’t built on lies, but on love, loyalty, and compassion. Care about what she says or at least make it look like you care. Never lose confidence, be calm and relaxed don’t worry about what’s happening next to you. Don’t care that there is a flying, green leprechauns passing out free gold to anybody who says ‘hi’ to him. Just constantly flirt or just talk to find out how she is. You don’t want to give the wrong signals to a girl you thought you liked. You might find out later that she is a homicidal maniac that has the time to stalk you all the way home and watches all that you do from outside your house and she leaves you anonymous messages on your cell phone with only sounds of deep breathing.

When talking to her always be open-minded. What she likes might be creepy to you at first but later it might be the coolest thing in the world. Also when talking to her find out what she likes, what music, she likes what kind of movies she likes (so you can take her to an appropriate movie on a date), and stuff about her in general.

Last of all never lose your confidence. If she shuts you down its ok because there are many fish in the sea and some are harder to get than others. If you really can’t approach the girl because your confidence level isn’t up there then you can write a love poem and say it to her or leave it in her locker. If your are in a band, not the instrumental one, then you can sing and dedicate a song to her or you can formulate a song that expresses how you think of her. If you decide to attempt to serenade your way into a woman’s heart then try to sing at her house with guitar in hand in the stormy rain; but if you suck at singing and couldn’t sing if your life depended on it then don’t attempt, your plan might backfire on you and think that you are a total loser and that you pathetic. Although she might take it to the heart and think that even though your skills weren’t there your heart was and she will fall madly in love with you.

Never wait too late to get the girl and never give up. You know you might finally ware her down and finally give in, then find that all this time she really does like you. She could also be trying to play games with you and play hard to get.



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